Sex, the way YOU want it

Ladies, I understand and agree that us guys can, well not be the most sauve when making love. There is no reason that you shouldn’t get it the way you want it. You know your body better then us or at least you should. If you give us the start without control we’ll run head long, good for us but Uggghh another one for him and not me time for you.

So, lets fix that shall we,
It’s simple it really is. PLEASE guide us. Communicate to us what you would like. Show us. Grab that vibrator, forget we’re in the room and go for it. Dont ask, but TELL him to sit there and learn something. The movements, slow, fast, long, short etc.  If your guy isnt a complete idiot, and there are a lot of us out there. He should look at this as a time to learn something, how to please you. Tell him that although one finger is ok, a fist might not be welcomed. If you are that kind of girl then more power to you.

You HAVE to take control, we like it. Trust me. There is nothing more sexier then a women that knows what she wants and can control how the event goes down. If it is horrible, then there is no one else to blame. If you just sit back and lay there we will think we have the right to do whatever we want to, unless you speak up.

This is more so not about sex but empowerment. Empowerment over what you are going to get out of your love making, one night stand or whatever. In the end you do have control.

From my mom,
“With one of these I can get all of those that I want, With one of those you have to work to get one of these.”

All the while pointing to her crotch then mine. You know, being told this at 17, wakes a guy up if he listens.

So, what that says is that you in the end have the power over it all. Men will cross broken glass if need be to get to it. You have no idea how powerfull you are. Use it. Not to take advantage but to educate so both can enjoy.


~ by Frustrated Hubby on July 17, 2007.

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