How to Make Your Guy Feel Loved
Men, just as women want to feel loved as well. Ladies I can tell you. you can have the most manly man and deep inside he too has a softer side and wants to feel close to you, feel that he’s needed, feel that he is the big kahuna in your life. Get a bunch of guys in the room and they will act totally different around each other, not even trying. This comes from the concept that men should be strong and not show to much. If we do it’s a sign of weakness. In our minds we “think” that we have to be that person for you to go to no matter what. Although, most of you will turn to a close girlfriend first.
A Few Ideas,
- Tell us you love us first. We like to hear it too.
- Show some physical affection. Not all out sexual touching, there is a difference. But, a touch on the arm. Reaching to hold our hand first. A small little butt squeeze etc.
- Whisper “I love You” in our ear for no reason at all when possible. A soft reminder that no one else can hear but us.
It isnt that difficult realy and will go a long ways. Think about how you would like to be treated and just do the same for us. We like the same stuff, trust me.
The by product of this is that you can have greater control over the sexual aspect of your realationship. Your guy will change from grabbing and feeling on you all the time to one that starts to see that there are some boundries. There is also the effect that if we feel loved and wanted. We wont feel as if it’s “ok” for us to grab a boob or undress you with our eyes every time we see you. The more you give the less we need.